When an ASP or hobbyist doesn’t show up for an appointment and has not contacted the other party in advance to cancel or warn of problems in making the appointment.
A very annoying and, unfortunately, too common occurrence in the hobby.
Such victims have no memories of what happened while under the drug’s influence. Spelled “FBSM ”, means “with a bonus” and usually means a BJ. It generally implies more about the tone & tenor of the session than about specific services provided, but many believe GFE should include the possibility of DFK, DATY, UTF and a broad array of FS positions.
An ASP takes the advertised fee upfront, but in the midst of the session she asks for more money for more services. She might undress and give a massage for the advertised $$, but then ask for an additional $ for French, or $$ for FS, etc.), aka upselling. Supposedly better than a GFE, and even more nebulous. The pseudo-sexual act of placing the penis between the butt cheeks of the receiving partner.
In the late nineteenth century, it was common for two unmarried women to share a home.
Many women, particularly those who were college educated, lived in long-term unions with other women.
It may, but does not necessarily, include sexual stimulation.
Sensual Massage indicates a massage with sexual stimulation (usually a hand job). (possibly to meet some short-term financial needs).The “pony” is expected to prance and/or pull a cart. A session that gives the feeling of being in a Porn or XXX Movie or like having a date with a Porn Star.As with the Girlfriend Experience (GFE), a PSE is not very well defined and definitions will vary wildly.These relationships became known as “Boston Marriages”. The person posing as an ASP shows up, takes your money, doesn’t provide any services or might offer to “dance” (but more often than not does not), and leaves with the cash, aka dance and dash, ROB.The word “crone” was (and in some circles still is) a derogatory term for an old woman.The dollar sign (or collection of dollar signs) is sometimes used imply the price range of the services offered/provided. A person of the opposite sex who marries or dates a closeted lesbian or gay person to cover up their homosexuality.