So, as you’re getting to know this woman, be sure to keep the following in mind: 1.
Later, while on a date, my white guitarist and I passed several African American men and one remarked “Why is she with that white dude?
” His friend simply responded, “Maybe the brothers ain’t treating her right? While an interesting explanation, it wasn't the case.
More often than not we are looked over for jobs, we do not receive adequate education or medical care, and we are imprisoned at much higher rates than our white counterparts all because blackness is rarely associated with positivity. It’s assumed that that everyone belonging to that group thinks and behaves the same way, but that is never – ever – the case.
So in order to combat the harmful stereotypying of our people, try to compliment us without the caveat! When getting to know a black woman, don’t ask them to be the authority on black culture.
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I don’t have an explanation for it, it’s just something I notice. Your opinion is just that, yours and the same goes for him. Experience something you’ve never done and introduce your mate to something new. Most importantly, keep an open mind and be yourself!
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