I hate all these thoughts and questions that are floating around, and I haven't even found anything concrete and i'm already messed up over it! For once i'm glad he's sleeping in today, because i don't know if i'll go psycho b*tch when he wakes up or if i can hold it in. but you try really hard to approach the conversation as you are concerned for your marriage rather than he's in major trouble . Now this could just be a spam or not because that user id is the same thing he uses for everything.
Right now i'm leaning towards psycho b*tch so i really need time to calm down. If you try really hard as I know this would be so hard for me . The email he received(he gets alerts on his phone for new emails and texts) could possibly be spam, but it could also be just a normal email from them.
I just already feel so betrayed even knowing he hasn't even logged into the site or done anything yet.
Of course this just brings up all kinds of thoughts and questions in my mind like if he has resorted to looking online for women in this area, does that mean he's already tried to find them in person??
He goes out occasionally with friends from work for drinks after work, so what was he doing then?
was he really going for drinks or looking for a woman?!?
It a site that you can go to to find people in your area to have SEX with!!!!!
I almost woke him up and started bitching at him, but I don't want him knowing that I know he has an account at this site.We have our problems sure, a couple months ago I found out he had watched a live sex webcam which i was really pissed about, but we did talk about it, and he seemed to understand why i was upset, when i don't mind other porn on occasion. My minds going in all kinds of directions right now.I know if i try to talk to him about it I'll get upset and pissed off and won't be able to talk about it calmly and factually. I know how you are feeling because a betrayal of trust can come in many forms.But then if he actually uses the site, I don't know how I'll handle that. I don't know any marital history----- has he done things like this before? You want to have the best, closest most honest and awesome relationship you can and want his help. The fact that he hasn't done anything yet is good . I'm sure your head is spinning in all sorts of directions. It would be really hard for me to keep that inside . Say something like you just aren't feeling as close as you would like and you'd really like to work on it, maybe counseling. You are a great girl---- and for him to have betrayed your relationship this way is too painful. and signing up for a site like that means he isn't having an affair . good luck Thanks, I'm just all jumbled up right now.But on the same hand, if i confront him about this, he may just go to a different site and hide it better. Then get the guy in counseling and devulge the info at that point. I don't know any marital history----- has he done things like this before? You want to have the best, closest most honest and awesome relationship you can and want his help. The fact that he hasn't done anything yet is good . I mean it really disturbs me because last night i fell asleep on the couch while watching a movie and the computer is in the living room, so he did this while I was right there in the same room asleep!So my husband just received an alert on his phone that his new account at some dating site has been set up.