In fact they were the exact opposite of all the stereotypes... I actually worked with him 15 years before, but really never knew him that well back than.Take people at face value, if a person is unwilling to do that then they are unwilling to do the same in many other situations and you might find they are not the kind of person you want to be with anyway. We never hung out and weren't friends or anything, just we remember each other from back than.I knew that it would be hard, but I have been involved with minority groups in the past, my point in saying this is that people would judge these minority's just because of who they were or what they thought they were. So I would stand up for their rights and I knew that I could do that with my boyfriend too.
He is having extreme difficulty finding work due to his crime. I am often faced with the dilemma if I can have this person in my life because of the moral problem, and financial problems this all means.
Dear Therapist, I'm currently dating a very nice young man whom I met through my work at a garden center.
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Thus the rumor mill at work started and some one googled him to find that he had been charged for having two pornographic videos of children and a couple of photos on his laptop two and a half years ago.
This came as a complete surprise to me, mainly because he seemed like the first genuinely good guy that I had been attracted to in years!
And was supportive and stayed a great friend throughout that time. I've always believed that people deserve second chances and while he did look at those things he's never had a sexual relationship of any kind before and was bullied as a kid so perhaps it might be an emotional issue from his childhood?
I will be talking to him about it regardless but I felt like I needed an outsiders opinion to help me get my bearings straight.
And it says this in his court statement as well, which makes me want to believe him.
I've currently been going through some difficult emotional issues on my own due to a long history of depression and today his officer came by just to have a chat with me about him and to make sure that I knew the whole story, which I do.
Before all of this had happened people in my work had been trying to set us up as well.