9) If you were to walk into a crowded bar where everyone was busy talking, went and sat in a corner and meekly said Hi nobody would notice you the same applies here don't just say Hello all.... Hi Miss Bonnie ( hint, I dislike being called Mistress Bonnie unless I own you) 10) Being worthy. Perhaps you should do whatever it takes to make yourself worthy!:) 11) Some people seem to think that being a sub male means being a "Wimp" but I can tell you from first hand experience (Oz is no wimp)..
Even if you are the kind of person who meets someone and wakes up married the next day, try to demonstrate a little more discretion in choosing someone who will expect actual obedience from you.
Even a cyber relationship needs some mutual ground for understanding.
If you yourself outside the chat room just re log in. Real life Dommes are much more impressed to find out that you have a brain, can hold a polite conversation, and have a few manners.
The other half of this is "Don't kiss my butt unless I TELL you to kiss it." Not everyone wants their hind parts sucked on. There are probably 10 guy subs for every female Domme.
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Many of us don't like being called Mistress by people not our collared subs.